How To Change Your Life -
Or Miss Out
Hungry At An Information Feast
How To Change. At least in the days before the internet, you had the excuse that you didn't have the information to know how to change or improve your life and achieve what you want.
Now there is no excuse. You can find information on just about anything you want with the tapping of the fingers and a few clicks.
Yet, all this information hasn't been as helpful as many had hoped. 99% of people still fail to be what they term as successful in life. And yes, there is a lot of information out there on self improvement, using positive thinking or your mind power to achieve what you all your desires.
So what is missing? Why are people still failing to achieve success even when they are told or are well informed on how to change their lives? Some can even afford to pay therapists to tell them how to lead more fulfilled lives?
Well the truth of the matter is this; information doesn't easily translate into change in behavior and people still have that annoying habit of apportioning blame.
Why People Fail?
Ask anyone why they did not succeed in what they are were trying to do, more likely than not, they will go into long explanations but I can assure you, few of them, if any, will put their hands up and admit: ' Hey, I just messed up.'
Most will try to convince you, as they have convinced themselves, that with their circumstances, people involved or whatever, NO ONE would have succeeded. Of course, this is not true – and deep down, they know it know too but it is a habit of theirs.
So the first bad habit to break and Tip #1 is: Quit Blaming.
It is the only way you are going to benefit from the learning opportunities you often times label as failures. Start accepting that things didn't turn out as well as you wanted them to because you missed something or indeed didn't put in what was required. Blaming is a lose-lose habit.
The Enemy Within
Humans are creatures of habit. You may be surprised to found out that it is your habits that usually stand in your way of achieving what you feel you deserve and desire.
My jury is still on why bad habits are much easier to acquire than good ones. So failing is also a habit - a bad one at that. You need to recognize that just like smoking; your own bad habits can sabotage your desire for success.
So Tip #2
on how to change your life is to Admit, Recognize and Become Familiar the Enemy Within;
your bad habits.
There is a saying that goes; madness is doing the same thing and expecting different results.
So here is quick madness
test: think about the things you do on a daily basis, now ask yourself; Do they contribute to achieving what you want out your life?
If the answer is no, then you need to change your habits by first identifying what these are and then starting working on a strategy of how to change into success habits.
Practicing the Habits of Success
To achieve something usually requires action on your part. The truth is; you are most probably aware of what actions are needed to achieve what you want. Let's take losing weight as an example. You know that to lose wieght, you need to eat less fatty foods, eat vegetables and fruits, exercise and drink a lot of water etc. You also know that you don't lose weight on knowledge alone.
So Tip # 3
for quickly changing your life and being happier: Take the Required Action.
More importantly, make taking required action your # 1 habit of success. So in dieting, you take action by eating your vegetables, fruits, drinking 8 pints of water etc. which in turn greatly improves your chances of achieving your ideal weight.
However, let's say that instead of following your exercise regime, you prefer to sit down and watch TV, eat potato chips because you hate vegetables and can't stand fruits. Do you think you will lose weight? Most definitely the answer is NO. Whose fault will it be? Whichever way you look at it, it all comes down to you. It is the same with everything else.
So use the power of your mind through positive thinking and take the required action for the success you are seeking. Do this on a daily basis otherwise you may find yourself backsliding.
Replace Your Bad Habits With Good Ones
Practising success habits is a life style change in that they become part of your daily routine. Most importantly though, you must remember that being successful means accepting that sometimes things may not turn out quite the way you wanted. And it is okay.
So Tip #4 on how to change your life for the better: Accept Failure
- and view it as a learning experience.
Your success habits will see to it that you don't give up. Success tastes way sweeter than failure. This ia because it is really your right to be successful and happy. This Free Law of attraction MP3 Audio will definitely show you how to change your life by using the power within and the natural laws that will guarantee success.
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